Patricia Neely-Dorsey's
Reflections of a Mississippi Magnolia

"A CELEBRATION OF THE SOUTH AND THINGS SOUTHERN"

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Sable Lit Reviews

November 3, 2008

 As soon as you begin reading Patricia Neely-Dorsey’s book of poetry dedicated to her life in Mississippi, you immediately know you can’t do her lyrical rhymes the injustice of reading them silently.

Her words are meant to be read aloud, each syllable savored as they roll along your tongue. If you are not southern you will long to be in short order as you read about the Southern men, the fine Southern ladies, the Southern foods, the Southern skies and the Mississippi heat on your back. You can almost feel it as you drink in every verse.

Thank you Lord for I am only two generation removed from this Southern charm of which Neely-Dorsey speaks. My grandparents hail from the Georgia Peach. While it’s not the fragrant land of the Mississippi Magnolia, I still recall some of the memories Neely-Dorsey offers her readers as a treat.

Patricia Neely-Dorsey’s poetry reminds me of a chap book I stumbled upon in a public reading room. It was not a bestseller and its cover wasn’t glossy, as a matter of fact the clerk said I could have it. I was nine and I read that poetry book from cover to cover. I laughed and I cried. I cherished that book for years. Now that book has a companion in Patricia Neely-Dorsey’s Reflections of a Mississippi Magnolia: A Life in Poems. A volume, I’m glad she shares with us. The volume of audible candy earns 5/5 Sable Seals of approval.

Laura Major- Sablelit Reviews-Glendale,AZ         

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4.0 out of 5 stars Going down South, March 28, 2009

Reflections of a Mississippi Magnolia
by Patricia Neely-Dorsey
Reviewed by Marsha Coles
Poetic Monthly Magazine

Reflections of a Mississippi Magnolia by Patricia Neely-Dorsey is a 90 page book of poetry published by Grant House Publishers, LLC.

From the very first poem "Southern Life" Ms. Dorsey transfers the reader to an avidly descriptive barbecue with nature's goodness all around. She invites the reader to enjoy southern hospitalities and delicacies making the reader feel as though they are there walking amongst the Magnolias.

Each poem in Reflections of a Mississippi Magnolia shows the reader the love for the simple southern life, family, and faith that the authors holds dear.

I suggest this book for a nice leisurely day sitting on the front porch swing. It was an excellent book of poetry and I hope Ms. Dorsey continues to write and perhaps have another book of poetry available someday for her followers.

Reviewed by Marsha Coles
author of Texas Justice
Poetic Monthly Magazine  

 

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5.0 out of 5 stars Grits in Grace(land) , March 22, 2009

Poetry about southern life, although the focus is Mississippi, it could well be any southern state.
It is a refreshing and unique perspective that rings true to my experiences of North Carolina, Virginia, Georgia, and Arkansas.

Patricia Neeley-Dorsey covers a wide range of topics from cooking, childhood, men, the environment, friends, habits and places common to the south. I enjoyed reading it because each poem was like a cool drink of water on a hot summer day, simply refreshing.

I would rate it a 5 for clarity, brevity, and comprehensive coverage as it was substantial enough to give someone who has never been south an idea of what to expect and how to adjust. Very light-hearted and easy reading, I found Neely Dorsey subtle and yet exciting.

Of course, it did help that she is one of my sorority sisters!

Reviewed by: Gail

 
5.0 out of 5 stars An Education of the South, April 3, 2009
By Yvonne Mason "Author" (Port St Lucie, Fl.) - See all my reviews
Reflections of a Mississippi Magnolia - A Life in Poems
Ms. Dorsey has taken her knowledge of the South and put in a book of poety which sings. She shows exactly what it is like to live in the south, know true southern gentlemen and the flow that goes with the southern culture.
She shows the reader the roots which run deep and strong in the lives and loves of a true southern. As as southern author and a true southern child I could relate to all of the poems which she has penned. From Grits, to family Ms. Dorsey has nailed it. She reminds us of a quieter and slower time.
This book is indeed an excellent read for those who are southern by birth, southern by design or want to be. She tells it just like it is.
I give the book five stars

Yvonne Mason, Author
5.0 out of 5 stars Mississippi in Poetry, April 9, 2009

I adore poet Patricia Neely-Dorsey's new book Reflections of a Mississippi Magnolia-A Life in Poems. Her's is a good life! The poems are upbeat, bouncy at times, and make me proud to be a Mississippian. They are positive to the core, even the "Right to Vote" which is her parents struggle to check the ballot in Tupelo, Mississippi. It might easily lean to the bitter, but the last stanza of the poem affirms the positive:

It seems almost incredulous
That this was how it was;
But, believe you me, no matter what,
I vote, now, just because.

At times I hear past U.S. Poet Laureate, Billy Collins, in her voice. It is amongst her shorter poems, he stands out such as "Turning 40."

When I turn 40,
I felt so brand new;
I bought a bikini,
And got a tattoo;
For some unknown reason,
I felt more alive;
I can't imagine what'll happen,
When I turn 45.

In the section title "Getting Personal" Patricia wrote a poem based on the many different takes on her name. For example, it begins:

Patty, Patty Cake, Patsy,
Tisha, Trisha, Trish;
I've got more names that I am called,
I can't even begin to list.

In this poem titled, "Name Calling," I want to add two more deserved monikers. She should be called Magnolia after the title of her book; although, I shorten it gladly to Maggie.

 

4.0 out of 5 stars Reflections of a Mississippi Magnolia, April 20, 2009
I was introduced to Patricia and her book through an interview she was doing with Ella Curry for Black Authors Network, on Blogtalk radio. She was absolutely charming and in discussing her book, she brought back so many memories of spending my summers, in the south with family. Just hearing her accent, took me back to being a carefree kid enjoying the simple ease of southern living. Great food, uncomplicated life, unsophisticated, easy, and running through grass with no shoes on. Being a "Big City Girl", this laid back country life at first was unnerving. I am a New Yorker. So this was a whole new world that I learned to embrace, and appreciate, over time.

When I got Reflections of a Mississippi Magnolia, I started reading her "reflections" I fell in love with southern living all over again. Patricia speaks of everything from food to family, and all between. Her poems were a pleasant trip down memory lane.

It later dawned on me that maybe that's where my affection for Magnolia bushes came from.
I had the extreme pleasure of featuring Patricia on my blog. Please stop by www.simplysaidreadingaccessories.blogspot.com

5.0 out of 5 stars Poetry in Motion!!!, April 22, 2009
By Rose Wright (Jackson, Mississippi) -(REAL NAME)   
Reflections of a Mississippi Magnolia-A Life in Poems is a great little book of life and love felt in Mississippi. It takes you back to those grandma and grandpa days in rural Mississippi. Reminding us of our up bringing and the continue love for our beloved home state and those we knew and grew up with. Makes you remember all the great people, foods and places there. Whether it was a dirt road, gravel or even paved city streets. There nothing in comparison to Mississippi. And this book takes you back there. You can enjoy this book whether you are poet or not. It's just that good. Congratulations Mrs. Neely-Dorsey on Poetry in Motion. Savvy Book Club, Jackson,MS

5.0 out of 5 stars Great Reflections, April 27, 2009
By Ronald W. Weathersby (Los Angeles, CA) - See all my reviews
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This outstanding work by Patricia Neely-Dorsey is a must-read for everyone. It is a compilation of Neely-Dorsey's poems that's exceptional entertainment and a great read too.

Get the book and get comfortable because when you begin reading her work you are not going to put it down until you finish it.

The writings cover personal and shared experiences from Neely-Dorsey's childhood, adolescence, young adulthood, marriage and motherhood. It is 'a life in poems.' Neely-Dorsey not only writes about these occurrences, she celebrates them. The poems take the reader back to their upbringing and maturation. It was gratifying to read her work as I reminisced about my life. Neely-Dorsey opens your mind and successfully instigates personal reflection and ultimately celebration of the events and occurrences we all have in common.

Her writings are heartwarming, insightful, funny & thought-provoking.

Despite the great title, the book is not just for Mississippians. Anyone, whether they are from the Deep-South, the Mid-West, the East Coast, Mountain States or the West Coast will find they actually share many life experiences with the author. The genius of Neely-Dorsey's book is her ability to not only capture her life in poetry; she also places our lives in the proverbial nut-shell.

The book transcends generations, gender and locale.

GET THE BOOK!
 
4.0 out of 5 stars Southern Girl, May 29, 2009
By Renee Williams "Renee Williams" (Huntsville, TX United States) - See all my reviews
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I am a Southern girl through and through and wouldn't trade my Southern roots for anything in the world. Although I'm not from Mississippi like poet Patricia Neely-Dorsey, I could definitely picture myself in the memories she so vividly portrayed in her collection of poetry, Reflections of a Mississippi Magnolia. With each poem that I read, I would find myself reflecting on my own childhood and smiling fondly at the memories each piece evoked.

This book is divided into seven sections - southern life, country living, childhood memories, family history, getting personal, intimacies and summing things up. The poems in each section allow readers, whether from the south or not, a brief glimpse into the quirks and idiosyncrasies that make up the uniqueness of the South.

While I could relate to almost every poem, a few that really spoke to me are "Inside Me" (p. 61), "Shades of Lovely" (p. 70-71), "Bookworm" (p. 72) and "Salvation" (p. 73). These pieces of prose touch on the person that I am, the beauty that is me and beliefs that I hold dear.

Poetry is not a genre that I read on a regular basis and I honestly can't say why that is. What I do know is that Dorsey's skills as a poet come shining through in this wonderful collection of real life inspired pieces.

Renee Williams
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5.0 out of 5 stars Review: Reflections of a Mississippi Magnolia- A Life in Poems by Patricia Neely-Dorsey, June 25, 2009

Reading this wonderful collection of poems brought back
so many delightful memories of life in the South.
Although the author based her poems in Mississippi
many residents of the South will definitely relate to this
book. These poems are spot on in their description of
Southern life.
There were several poems that I enjoyed but I will only
share two of them with you. Suffice it to say you should
Definitely read this book of poems!!

Fave Poem #1

Turning 40
When I turned 40,
I felt so brand new;
I bought a bikini,
and got a tattoo;
For some unknown reason,
I felt more alive;
I can't imagine what'll happen,
When I turn 45.


I hope when I turn 40 I am this adventurous.


Poem # 2

The (UN) Domestic Diva

I don't cook and I don't sew,
And I can hardly make a bed;
I don't even grocery shop to get my family fed.
My friends are always wondering ,
And often ask what it is I do;
Now, I can just simply say,
I write sweet poems for you.

 

4.0 out of 5 stars Pleasantly Surprised, July 2, 2009

I must admit that I don't usually write reviews for self published books, however, I received numerous emails urging me to simple give author Patricia Neely-Dorsey a chance, and ladies and gentlemen I've never regretted it.

Patricia has taken the some what "negative" stigma behind the south flipped it, drizzled it with some poetry, and blended it Dorsey style thus creating her own unique flava.

The poems in her books compel feelings of joy, sorrow, laughter, times of the past, some poems easy on the palate of the mind, and on the contrary there are some thought provoking poems as well. Patricia is a well rounded southern bell who has a bright future ahead of her. To learn more about her visit http://www.patricianeelydorsey.webs.com/.

 

 

 

4.0 out of 5 stars Take a trip to Mississippi, July 18, 2009
By Harold Chandler "N2Tech" (Scaggsville, MD United States) - See all my reviews
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Several summers while I was growing up, we loaded up the car and headed back "home." Home to my parents meant West Point, Mississippi. For a city boy like me, this was a chance to really get a different flavor of life. The people were nicer, the food was better, the pace was slower, and the iced tea was sweeter. While there we usually got a view of two Mississippi worlds since my mother was a country girl and grew up in a rural area and my dad grew up in town where there were close neighbors, paved streets and even a neighborhood store next door.


Whether I was in town or out in the country, Mississippi was always the backdrop for family reunions and fun, stories from Grandaddy and if it was a good day, a ride on the horse or in the back of Grandaddy's pickup truck. Many of us have fond memories of Southern landscapes or sipping sweet tea on the porch and waving at folks as they passed by. Since my grandparents are no longer with us, we haven't been making those frequent trips to Mississippi and it gets harder to refresh the memories or adequately pass along those great stories to my kids that fascinated me and my cousins growing up.


Reflections of a Mississippi Magnolia: A Life in Poems is a collection of poems by Patricia Neely-Dorsey. These poems bring back the tastes and smells and the calming influences of Southern life. The expressions and phrases quickly transported me back to pre-pubescent conversations with aunts and uncles and flashed in my mind pictures of dusty roads and magnolia trees.


Thanks Patricia for taking me back to country living and giving me a glimpse of our sweet Mississippi. I really could throw down on some fried okra and pickle slices right now

 

5.0 out of 5 stars Great Book!, August 3, 2009
By J. Slate (Savannah, GA, USA) - See all my reviews
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This is a book that I will treasure owning. I live in the South and I found many personal connections in her poems. All throughout the book, I found myself thinking, "I know someone just like that," or "Yep, that's how it is in my town." It is an easy and fun read! I think this book would be a great gift for a hostess gift, newlyweds, your relatives, or even someone in the Alpha Kappa Alpha sorority as the author is and has a couple poems refering to it. It would especially be fantastic if the person is from or has roots in Mississippi. I loved the book and I can't wait for what she writes next!

 

5.0 out of 5 stars A poetic picture of life in the south...., August 7, 2009
Life in the south is different. Time seems to move a little slower. The tea is a lot sweeter. The birds sing a loud clear song while the smell of honeysuckle lingers in the air.

I have always lived in upper south, never in the deep South. The farther south you go the stronger the accent and the slower the pace. Too often the south is stereo typed either as ignorant rednecks (I happen to be one so I have the right to say that) or southern belles. The south is both and much more.

Patricia Neely-Dorsey shares her memories of Mississippi. Her style is simple and easy to understand. Most poets seem to write in symbolism that only they have the key to interpret. Not so with Dorsey. She wants readers to understand.

No one could better describe a southern man --

Southern Man. (excerpt)

He's got strong,

firm hands that let you know ,

Real work is nothing new. .......

There are certain kinds of values

This man is sure to hold

His love of home and family

Is sure to not grow cold. .....

He'll deeply love his mother.



Well done Patricia! I will long cherish Reflections of a Mississippi Magnolia.
5.0 out of 5 stars Conveys Heartfelt Emotions, August 11, 2009

Living in the south is more than location it is a way of life. Neely-Dorsey paints a picture of rich southern living that will make you long to move to Mississippi. She is a true poet that composes on the fly and conveys such heart felt emotion that will bring you to tears on one page and make you laugh out loud on the next. The topics, ideas, and real life moments are simple and real which allows the reader to closely identify with the emotions expressed. The variety of subject matter provides a glimpse into Neely-Dorsey's life and makes one wonder when the novel will come out. This book of poetry would be perfect for anyone needing to embrace life and open their heart to love.

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4.0 out of 5 stars Magnificient Magnolia Poetry, August 22, 2009

With Reflections of a Mississippi Magnolia, Patricia Neely-Dorsey gives the world a book that is part biography, part rhymes, part imagination but all Mississippi! In a time where most people shun being called "country", Patricia Neely-Dorsey's Reflection of a Mississippi Magnolia embraces all that is Mississippi country living. Before you can even open this collection of poetry, you are greeted with the beauty of a magnolia, Mississippi's state flower.

I spent many summers in the small town of Winona, MS, where my dad still lives. I can say with confidence that Neely-Dorsey is an artist of words. Her images are painted vividly across the canvas of your mind as you thumb through her musings. Her words and rhyme patterns are simple, yet the complex imagery the words evoke will whisk yo down memory lane. I remember the "muscadines ripen[ing] on winding vines" (from "A Country View") and using Vick's Vapor Rub on everything "from arthritis to [a] bee sting" and "on chest or back" (from "Country Cure (All)").

Neely-Dorsey's poems vividly and collectively paint a picture of a life that is simple yet provides rich experiences. From the authentic Southern menu found in "Soul Food Restaurant" to the culture depicted in "Yardsaling", this collection of poetry gives more than a glimpse into lives of the good people of Mississippi. From the "Southern Man" poem where the main character fixes the back fence to the truth found in "If Mississippi's In You", Reflections of a Mississippi Magnolia shows a genuine pride in Southern culture.

Reviewed by Joey Pinkney Dot Com
Book Reviewer

 

5.0 out of 5 stars Steeped In Mint Julep Tea and Home-Made Molasses, September 6, 2009



"Patrica Neely-Dorsey really hits home with her wonderfully written book of poetry

about Southern Living and culture in our beautiful Magnolia State of Mississippi.

Steeped in Mint Julep Tea and smothered with home-made cane molasses and butter,

Dorsey's poems give you the comfort of a long ago childhood where many of us lived

on a farm, attended a country church as well as leaving home for other

destinations. A must read for anyone who loves poetry and looking to rekindle their

Southern Roots."

 

 
5.0 out of 5 stars A Refreshing Look at Mississippi, November 17, 2009
By Ran Walker (Hampton Roads, VA) - See all my reviews
Aleda Shirley, a poet and friend who passed away in 2008, once said of Mississippi, "I have a love/hate relationship with it." Having grown up in Mississippi myself, I can relate to that statement, especially as an African American. That is why I was unsure of what to expect when I read Patricia Neely-Dorsey's ode to Mississippi, a poetry collection entitled Reflections of a Mississippi Magnolia: A Life in Poems. What Mrs. Dorsey accomplishes with this work is both interesting and refreshing because she chooses to focus on a unifying Southern experience, one that, regardless of race or class, resonates as a common denominator to those of us who actually know what a muscadine is or have ever purchased fruit off the bed of a pickup truck.

The beauty of her poems emanates from the simplicity of her imagery, which can be seen even in the first poem of the collection, "Southern Life," where she describes the beauty of a Southern setting through the use of images like "Wooden porches cleanly swept" and "tea that's syrupy sweet." While her general ode to Mississippi is tender and nostalgic, Mrs. Dorsey's personal poems are my favorites of the collection. Her candid explorations of her love for her husband and son, her respect for those who helped to rear her, and her own self-examination add enormously to an already quite suitable poetic collection. My absolute favorite poem in the collection, incidentally, is also among the shortest in the collection. It is called "Turning 40" and goes as follows:

When I turned 40,
I felt so brand new;
I bought a bikini,
And got a tattoo;
For some unknown reason,
I felt more alive;
I can't imagine what'll happen,
When I turn 45.

Mrs. Dorsey's passion for life, love, and the South come shining through in this collection, reminding those of us who do have the aforementioned love/hate relationship with Mississippi why it is that we continue to come home over and over again and love the fabric of our home, in spite of some of its shadows.
 


 
5.0 out of 5 stars Real magic, November 23, 2009
I had high expectations for this book, and they were all surpassed. I lost count of how many times I laughed. I felt so good inside, the kind of joy one feels as a six year-old who is still delighted with the simple things in life. When people get to their mid-thirties and older, they haven't felt that joy in so many years. They have forgotten. Her book brings them back to that special time. That is the real magic here.
This book is sure to be recognized for preserving through literature a quickly disappearing way of life and culture in the country. This is a diverse collection that covers everything from love and marriage to the festival atmosphere of hog killings. The country scenes are very authentic. She moves with incredible ease from the deeper inward joys of life to the many social and light pleasures of the outdoors.
Most writers have thoughts and images in their heads. They try to translate those pure thoughts into the right words and rhythms. They agonize and obsess over how to do this. She writes purely what's in her heart with no hesitation. This book offers a series of unedited glimpses into her soul. Without a doubt, her soul is beautiful and inspiring.
Her literary style is unique in the ability to use simple, positive expressions that even non-poetry readers can quickly connect with. Her written thoughts are not bound by any strict rhyme schemes or poetic rules; nor should they be. There is a natural rhythm here, one that she might say "springs from the Mississippi ground." The style is as natural, sweet, and perfect as a magnolia in full bloom. Who would try to improve upon such an experience?
This book makes a perfect gift. Reflections is a quick, fun, and endearing read.

 

 
5.0 out of 5 stars Down Home Southern Poetry At It's Best, November 22, 2009
By Nancy T. Hellams "ohme" (Pendleton, SC) - See all my reviews
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Reflections Of A Mississippi Magnolia - A Life In Poems is written by a true Southerner, Patricia Neely-Dorsey. She writes passionately about growing up in the South, her love for her home state of Mississippi and her life after 40. Her poetry is sincere, real, and warm. They just feel good to read and sure makes this reader feel mighty proud to be a Southerner. Of course, you do not have to be from the South to appreciate Patricia's poetry. Her flowing words are a joy for everyone to read.

Patricia Neely-Dorsey writes in the preface of her book that she always hesitates to call herself a poet. She says

"I feel more like a vessel or a conduit through which the poems flow. I never intentionally sat down to write any of them. They all came to me, fully complete and neatly packaged, title and all"

 

4.0 out of 5 stars Push Nevahda Review: Mississippi Magnolia, December 10, 2009

Flight 664 had me agitated and bothered since the moment I'd arrived at the Phoenix/Mesa Gateway airport to board the dubious flight headed East to Grand Rapids, Michigan. Hungry and worried over the possibility that risky weather might reroute my flight to Texas or maybe even back to dusky Mesa, I grabbed a burrito, a cold sprite, and took a seat next to an older gentleman who rambled on endlessly about growing up in Tunica, Mississippi during the 40s and 50s. I spoke of my ambivalence with Detroit, but that, no matter what, I loved Detroit and it will always be home. "As a matter of fact," I said to the elderly gentleman, "I'm headed that way now. Well, I'm gonna land in Grand Rapids, then drive on to Detroit from there."After more talk on Mississippi and Detroit, the silver-haired fellow left and I pondered on the wonderful stories he'd shared, when all of a sudden it hit me! I had a review copy of Patricia Neely-Dorsey's new book of poetry, Reflections of a Mississippi Magnolia: A Life in Poems, tucked in the side of my briefcase.

I cautiously glanced out the plane window to see what was down there. Everything was small and getting smaller. We'd been in the air for about 40 minutes. The pilot told us that there was indeed a chance that we would have to return to Phoenix/Mesa Gateway airport if instructed to do so should the weather not clear by the time we reached Las Vegas. I told the preacher seated behind me to pray that we make it: "I gotta be in Detroit tomorrow morning for a book signing," I said while placing my corduroy blazer over the back seat. "I'm praying, brother," the preacher smilingly reassured. I reached above the preacher's head into the overhead storage and rambled through my briefcase looking for Dorsey's book to see if I'd want to continue reading it. I'd began the book just before I boarded but, by now (approximately 16 pages into the book), Dorsey's poetry had did little to whet my appetite, and I longed for the moment when something explosive would strike my fancy, as well as take my mind off the fact that I was flying 33,000 miles in the air with no parachute strapped to my back...and a winter advisory warning - with minimum visibility - laying in wait as the plane floated on towards the grave abyss of blizzardly danger at a snowy Grand Rapids airport.

I continued thumbing through Dorsey's book while feeling somewhat
ambivalent about what I'd read up to that point. By the middle of the book, it becomes clear that Dorsey's nostalgic poetry reflects upon (and promotes) the goodness of Southern life and culture - even to the point of repetition and redundancy. For example, Sounds of Summer and Summer Night (Southern Style) really ought to have been one poem. Even Mississippi Morning is redundant and only revisits what has already been told. Interestingly, a few of Dorsey's poems speak to some historical matters. One Room School and Right to Vote is quite impressive.

According to my marginalia, The Rules is good, but Country Breakfast seems like a repeat of a poem with a different name. Yardsaling is good; Soul Food Restaurant is interesting; A Country View is interesting; and my notes on page 19 questioned: "Didn't she do this already on page 12?" Hog Killing Time and Slopping Hogs is essentially the same thing.

At times, Dorsey's reminiscent book reminded me of Zora Neale Hurston, and Paul Dunbar, seeming like odes or lyric poems on the beauty of Mississippi life, even. Sometimes the language is good, melodic, rhythmic, lyrical, and then it takes a turn for the worse. (Then there are moments when one wonders if we are reading Harriet Beecher Stowe.)

I tried hard to focus on completing Dorsey's book, but the weather took a turn for the worst and so I closed the book and stared out the window. There was nothing to see but wind and snow. There was no skyline, lights, or any sign of the runway. I was scared. I reopened Dorsey's book to take my mind off the fact that this could very well be the last book I read. The chapter titled Family History is quite good, but not good enough to save the book. Country Doctor certainly plays on my own personal interest in history, yet, The Agnews seemed unfinished and unpolished.

We began our descent into Grand Rapids airport and everyone on the plane looked worried and scared. Looking outside the window was like looking into a violent whirl of a blizzard storm. I thought if I'd ever see my friends and family again. Then I returned to Dorsey's book to read the last of the poems, Mississippi Magnolia. The plane's wheels screeched the runway, the passengers clapped, and I read Dorsey's last poem - the poem that saved the book:

Home is where the heart is,

That's what they always say;

Well, my heart is Mississippi's,

In the most profoundest way;

It's who I am,

It's what I like

It's everything to me;

A Mississippi Magnolia girl

Is all I'll ever be.



 
5.0 out of 5 stars Southern Style Memoir Poetry, December 18, 2009
Reflections of a Mississippi Magnolia:
A Life in Poems, by Patricia Neely-Dorsey
Grant House Publishers, (2007)
ISBN: 978-0-9796294-2-6
Softback: $15.00, 89 pages

Poetry is subjective in that it is transpired from the mind of a person whose life experiences, events, feelings about their observations and interactions, location, and period in humankind, causes the words to evolve almost into its own persona. The poetry, in other words, is a reflection of the Poet, as the Poet travels through their life and times to which the words and poetry are significant.
Patricia Neely-Dorsey is definitely a Southern Poet in that she speaks of an identity in her book of poems called Reflections of a Mississippi Magnolia that can be acutely understood best, by a Southerner. Thus, we can say that the identity or persona created in this book of poems is parochial in some sense, yet it is universal in another sense.

When one thinks of a parochial meaning, or person, we might think of such as insular, unsophisticated. The Poet here speaks of Mississippi distinctly, and the people in her particular life, the neighborhood, the conventions, and culture of her surroundings, as in "Making Cracklings":
First you have to kill a hog
Then, carefully take off the skin;
Cut it up in little squares,
And then the fun begins.
Take a big, black, iron pot,
Then, put in some lard'
As you'll see, it's quite simple,
Nothing very hard...

In this way, Neely-Dorsy creates a sense of a limited consciousness; a narrow-minded, child-like perspective, and even as "the child" grows up, there is this child-like sense of observation in that southern mentality. "Little Miss Perfect" exemplifies this observation:
I knew a little girl when I was young,
Who wore two pigtails across her head;
I thought she was the cutest thing,
And this, I often said,
Over the years, I watched her,
She was always quiet, likeable and smart;
To me, she seemed so perfect,
And had life down to an art....

In "Southern Night (Southern Style)" Neely-Dorsy exacts the emotions one would experience while sitting on a porch, staring out into the warm Southern sky:
Moths flicker `round the front porch light
Fireflies are taking flight
The sun has disappeared from sight
And all around the sounds of night.
Everything is warm and still
A sense of calm that one can feel
The moon shines bright over yonder hill
Can all this loveliness be real?

So on the one hand, this parochial sense is implicated by the language, "yonder hill" and from her experience in a Mississippi Southern moment.
On the other hand, however, these emotions can be felt supposing, on the Afghanistan border by some soldier sitting guard, looking out into the blazing heat of night. Neely-Dorsey then, while speaking of her own hometown, and her own particular love of the Southern Mississippi locale, and lifestyle, touches upon those universal sensations that anyone can claim. Further, it can be read to meet so many levels of emotions, and even ages of people, that such a "local" feel can touch someone even on the other side of the world; everyone has after all, their sense of place, their landscape in mind; their quiet inner observer of life, love, joy and sorrow.
Mississippi Magnolia

Home is where the heart is,
That's what they always say;
Well, my heart is Mississippi's,
In the most profoundest way;
It's who I am,
It's what I like,
It's everything to me;
A Mississippi magnolia girl
Is all I'll ever be.

Patricia Neely-Dorsey is a Poet of that fair Southern spirit, but she is also leagues with poets like Robert Frost, or Elizabeth Bishop, who wrote in that seemingly simple read, yet addressed universally and infinitely one's soul. A book of poetry that one can contemplate upon, consider in every aspect of a life in any city, country of world.

Reviewed by Lydia Nolan
Creator of International Books Cafe
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5.0 out of 5 stars Brings back memories!, December 30, 2009
By Martha A. Cheves (Charlotte, NC) - See all my reviews
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Reflections of a Mississippi Magnolia - Review by Martha A. Cheves, Author of Stir, Laugh, Repeat

I don't think I've ever picked up a book that brings back as many memories as Reflections of a Mississippi Magnolia. And the memories were all good memories. It made me remember growing up in the south and participating in the activities the poems represent. From the "Partyline" which talks about growing up with a telephone number shared by others, to the "Baptismal Sunday" which took place in a pond instead of a baptismal pool, and on to the "Making Cracklins" which I can still see my grandmother doing.

I have many favorites in this little book of memories but two that touched me the most were "Shelling Peas" and "Slopping Hogs." These two poems really took me back to my childhood while growing up in the south. So, if you are a Southerner and would like to awaken some memories of when life was more laid back, this book is a must read. If you're not from the south, reading Reflections of a Mississippi Magnolia will let you see what you missed. For me, this is a book I'll cherish forever.