
Reflections of a Mississippi Magnolia: A Life in Poems
When I think about how this book came to be and how it finally arrived to you the reader, I think of the words of the song "The Long and Winding Road". Though most of the poems in this book were written within a span of six months (Feb 2007-Aug 2007), they've all been in the making from very early in my life. My mother gave me a passionate love for reading and writing, and my father gave me an appreciation for poetry and great literature, especially that of African-American origin.
I always hesitate to call myself a poet. I feel more like a vessel or conduit through which the poems flow. I never intentionally sat down to write any of them. They all came to be fully complete and neatly packaged, title and all. I just put them down on paper.
I wrote my very first poem in February 2007. I woke up on Valentine's Day 2007 with the words of "Our Place" forcefully dancing around in my head. I quickly got up and scribbled it down. To this day, it remains one of my favorites along with "Let's" and "Mississippi Man".
As you will see in my poetry, I am so proud of where I come from, so happy with the life I've lived and totally enamored with the southern way of life.
Patricia Neely-Dorsey
Joey Pinkey- Joey Pinkney Reviews
"Sometimes the book doesn't come from the writer as much as it comes to the writer. Such is the case with Patricia Neely-Dorsey's experience with her debut collection of poetry entitled Reflections of a Mississippi Magnolia"

Two women, two different eras, one state, and one love are my thoughts as I consider the poetry written by Margaret Walker and Patricia Neely-Dorsey. At times, I saw little in common with the ladies other than poetry as form. Walker’s poetry rocks with evils perpetrated on living man as Neely-Dorsey’s poetry sings the joys of southern living.
The two have totally different opinions as the gap in their generations is very apparent. Walker, born in 1915, spent her formative years under the shroud of an ugly segregated south; whereas, Neely-Dorsey flourished in a post-Civil Rights Movement, Mississippi.
It is Walker who sometimes centers on the negative. For example, in the poem titled “Lineage,” she up lifts her strong grandmothers to turn and knock herself down with the line, “Why am I not as they?” Neely-Dorsey remains upbeat to the core, even the poem “Right to Vote” which might easily lean to the bitter, affirms the positive:
April is National Poetry Month and in celebration I have joined the Celebrate the South Blog Tour. Y'all know I'm all about the South, but did you know I have a secret affinity for poetry? That’s right! I’m poetry in motion. Bah! How can I even say that with a straight face!
Celebrate the South Blog Tour features poet Patricia Neely-Dorsey’s new book Reflections of a Mississippi Magnolia: A Life in Poems. Her's is a good life! The poems are upbeat, bouncy at times, and make me proud to be a Mississippian. They are positive to the core, even the “Right to Vote” which is her parents struggle to check the ballot in Tupelo, Mississippi. It might easily lean to the bitter, but the last stanza of the poem affirms the positive:





BLOG TOUR -schedule and presentations www.patricianeelydorsey.blogspot.com/2009/04/celebrate-south-blogtour.html
As both a Mississippian and one who has written poetry,I find this book a truly wonderful addition to my library!To me, a poem is a song without music. It should tell me a story, resurrect a memory, make me feel something!What I want most from poetry are words that makes sense to me. This book is 90 pages of pure delight! These poems do make sense. They tell me a story or raise a memory long buried in the recesses of my heart, they make me feel the emotion of their lines! I am from Mississippi, but I also lived my twenties, thirties and forties in Tennessee, making me mostly just a true southern woman. This book is TRUE SOUTHERN !! It really is some of the finest southern poetry I've read ! Patricia Neely- Dorsey knows southern, she knows poetry and she knows emotion. She has a bright future in the written word!
http://www.thewritersporch.blogspot.com/

FROM SOUTHERNLADY-NANCY BLOGSPOT:
I have often said to people, “You have to be from the South to really understand our Southern Ways.” But, Patricia has captured our “ways”, and our “life” in this fantastic book of Southern Poems!!!
If your a Southerner…you need this book of Southern poems. If your a Southern wannabe you need this book to, you will understand everything about the South and our Southern way of life! Southern wannbes this book will give you a FULL idea and understanding of what the Southern Life really means…the way we think, eat, talk, and live.
Every poem is like a short story that will flood your mind with feelings of Southern comfort, charm, joy, tears, and laughter! Oh, and a appetite for some good ole Southern Food!
From: http://www.southernlady-nancy.blogspot.com/

REVIEW:
Patricia' s writing style is direct and her message or story is easy to understand.
By painting word pictures in poetry, Patricia stir memories of my own Southern Life with images like 'mockingbirds and bumble bees,' 'chirping of the crickets,' and 'fireflies are taking flight.'
In the section, Country Living, I related to two poems, Baptismal Sunday and Preaching Sunday.
The section, Childhood Memories, triggered memories of physicians' house calls with Country Doctor (yes, I can remember that!) and magic Christmas mornings, Childhood Christmas 'to catch ole' Santa in his tracks.'
One Room School and Right to Vote are among the topics in Family History which also includes two poems about her son, Henry. Henry is a popular family name for several generations. In my family it was Paul.
Inside Me describes the authors spirit and soul, 'Butterflies spread their wings, And a new life awaits,' in the Personal section. A poem entitled Boston (Language Barrier) tickled my funny bone and triggered my memories of moving from Texas to Baltimore, MD immediately after my wedding. Salvation also triggered personal memories.
I can empathize with Patricia's lament in The (Un)Domestic Diva with a simple me, neither!" This poem is in the Intimacies section.
Summing Things Up, a collection of four poems about Mississippi, contains the title poem, Reflections of a Mississippi Magnolia.
Perhaps I have stirred your interest in Patricia's first book of poetry. According to the back cover about the author, she is completing a second book or poetry entitled, The Secret Garden of Love.
When I am elected President
I will mandate that everyone
be given a front porch like
this one...But till then,
you'll almost feel like you're
sitting on this porch sippin'
Sweet Tea from your favorite
glass when you read the gentle words
of Mrs. Patricia Neely-Dorsey
from Reflections of a Mississippi Magnolia-A Life In Poems

Saturday, July 18, 2009
Just reading this poem brings so many southern memories back to me...fishing with my daddy for catfish....fried okra, black-eyed peas and cornbread...the best pimiento cheese sandwiches in the whole world...sitting on the crank ice cream freezer, atop a quilt, on my aunt's front porch...lightening bugs and chiggers...watermelon gardens where the melons were kept in an ice-filled box and sold by the slice........*sigh.....My nickname or "handle" when I first started playing around with a computer was GRITS.....Girl Raised In The South...:O) bj If you like southern and if you like poetry, I am pretty sure you are going to love this book.
Recently, I was approached Patricia Neely-Dorsey who has written a book of poetry about the South and Mississippi in particular. Her book is called Reflections of a Mississippi Magnolia. She was so kind to ask me to feature her book on my blog. I would not have been exposed to her book otherwise, and it is now a book that I will always treasure. I found many personal connections in her poems. All throughout the book, I found myself thinking, "I know someone just like that," or "Yep, that's how it is in my town." Some of my favorites in the book are "Southern Man" because it reminds my so much of Thomas, his daddy, and his granddaddy. I am so lucky to be engaged to a southern gentleman! I also love the poem entitled "The Rules" because it is just so true...in the South there is a rule for everything! Some of my other favorites are "Yardsaling", "Little Miss Perfect", "Name Calling", and "Too Cold For Comfort." It is apparent that Patricia loves the South and her southern heritage and wrote this book for those from the South or those who love the South to enjoy and make connections with the poetry, and also to try to rid the negative stereotype that is sometimes associated with the South. I think she does a fantastic job with this book of poetry. It is an easy and fun read! I think this book would be a great gift for a hostess gift, newlyweds, your relatives, or even yourself.http://savannahsouthernbelle.blogspot.com/

I love to curl up and read a good book, especially when that book is filled with poems! A little while ago I was asked to do just that and I am so thankful that I said yes to the opportunity and that’s how I met Patricia Neely-Dorsey. This beautiful women appeared in my inbox with a sweet and gentle request that I couldn’t pass up. She has written a book of life in poems that will absolutely take your breath away! The name of the book is, Reflections of A Mississippi Magnolia.
From the moment I started reading the Foreword I was hooked and couldn’t put it down. I wanted more of this lady packaged in this sweet book of poems. In Patricia’s own words she says, “I always hesitate to call myself a poet. I feel more like a vessel or a conduit through which the poems flow. I never intentionally sat down to write any of them. They all came to me, fully complete and neatly packaged, title and all.” Her heart and passion for her work shows in every word and puts you in a place of being right there with her as the words were flowing. She also says, "There are so many negative connotations associated with Mississippi and the south in general. In my book, using childhood memories, personal thoughts and dreams, I attempt to give a positive glimpse into the southern way of life. In my book I try to show that there is much more to Mississippi and the south than all of the negatives usually portrayed. I invite readers to Meet Mississippi (and the south) Through Poetry, Prose and The Written Word." It definitely gives you a greater appreciation for the south, southern life and the men and women who love where they’re from.
I have so many favorites I would love for you to read like: “Southern Man”, “Summer Night (Southern Style)” and “The Magnolia Tree”, from her Southern Life collection that makes you want to experience it all for yourself. “Poetry” and “Little Miss Perfect” are from her Childhood Memories collection, describes personal memories of loved ones in her life, makes your heart say, wow! “One Room School”, from her Family History collection, reminds you of where we came from. “Loving Me”, “Happy (With The Nappy)”, “Shades of Lovely (Good Enough to Eat)”, *“Inside Me” and “Turning 40” (you could tell this is my favorite collection), from her Getting Personal collection, reminds you of how special, beautiful and awesome you really are in your own skin. “Simple Tastes” and “Our Place”, from her Intimacies collection will have you melting from all the love that flows like sweet honey, Yummy. “If Mississippi’s In You” and “Reflections of A Mississippi Magnolia”, from her Summing Things Up collection is the exclamation point, the wham bam thank you ma’am of a Mississippi Magnolia!
I enjoyed every bit of this wonderful book from front to back and I’ll enjoy reading it over and over and over again, I know you will too!!

The genius of Neely-Dorsey’s book is her ability to not only capture her life in poetry; she also places our lives in the proverbial nut-shell.
Ronald Weathersby
Los Angeles, CA
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With Reflections of a Mississippi Magnolia, Patricia Neely-Dorsey gives the world a book that is part biography, part rhymes, part imagination but all Mississippi!
Joey Pinkney-Joey Pinkney Reviews
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Patrica Neely-Dorsey really hits home with her wonderfully written book of poetry about Southern Living and culture in our beautiful Magnolia State of Mississippi. Steeped in Mint Julip Tea and smothered with home-made cane molasses and butter, Dorsey's poems
give you the comfort of a long ago childhood where many of us lived on a farm, attended a country church as well as leaving home for other destinations. A must read for anyone who loves poetry and looking to rekindle their Southern Roots.
Melanie Calvert Benton(aka) "Dahlia Patton"
Author of " A Southern Moon Rising"
www.melaniedcalvert.com
Reflections of a Mississippi Magnolia: A Life in Poems

MISSISSIPPI POEMS, MISSISSIPPI POETRY, SOUTHERN POEMS, SOUTHERN POETRY
Great Gift Idea!
GLOWING REVIEW-FALL 2009 issue of Mississippi Libraries Neely-Dorsey, Patricia. Reflections of a Mississippi Magnolia: A Life in Poems. Jonesboro, AR: GrantHouse Publishers, 2007. 90 pp. $15.00 (paperback) In Reflections of a Mississippi Magnolia: A Life in Poems, Patricia Neely- Dorsey has written, in poetic form, a kind of primer on southern life, manners, and customs. Her collection of seventy-two short poems is divided into seven sections: Southern Life, Country Living, Childhood Memories, Family History, Getting Personal, Intimacies, and Summing Things Up. This is not the angst-ridden poetry of a tortured soul; instead, “Loving Me” and “Happy (With the Nappy)” reveal a woman who is happy, secure, and comfortable with herself. Free of strict meter, but usually rhyming, Neely-Dorsey’s poetry captures images of nature, people, rural activities, social gatherings, and, of course, all kinds of food. “Hog Killing Time” depicts the tasks performed in preparing a hog for eating; “Country Doctor” paints a loving, respectful portrait of the poet’s father in his profession; and “Right to Vote” is a gentle reminder of the great difficulties that have been overcome, so that black people could vote in elections. It is clear Neely-Dorsey also enjoys playing with the rhythm of words and speech, as evidenced in “Neighborhood Groceries,” “Partyline,” and “Country Living.” While Neely-Dorsey received her college education in the Northeast (shown in her lighthearted frustrations with northern expressions in “Boston”), it is obvious from “Mississippi Morning” and “If Mississippi’s In You” that she deeply loves the South, especially her native Mississippi. As she expresses in “Mississippi Through and Through,” “…I breathe Mississippi. I move Mississippi. I think Mississippi. I feel Mississippi. I am, simply, Mississippi through and through.” This little book of poems is recommended for all Mississippi libraries, and will move the reader closer to understanding just what a “Mississippi Magnolia” girl is. Rick Torgerson Cataloger Delta State University http://randybandit.blogspot.com/ Reflections of a Mississippi Magnolia: A Life in Poems ![[05.jpg]](http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_m1xvD3ucgO8/SjURysSH8RI/AAAAAAAAAD4/rj4yMI4JtPU/s1600/05.jpg)
Wednesday, November 18, 2009
A Review of Patricia Neely-Dorsey's "Reflections of a Mississippi Magnolia"

Aleda Shirley, a poet and friend who passed away in 2008, once said of Mississippi, “I have a love/hate relationship with it.” Having grown up in Mississippi myself, I can relate to that statement, especially as an African American. That is why I was unsure of what to expect when I read Patricia Neely-Dorsey’s ode to Mississippi, a poetry collection entitled Reflections of a Mississippi Magnolia: A Life in Poems. What Mrs. Dorsey accomplishes with this work is both interesting and refreshing because she chooses to focus on a unifying Southern experience, one that, regardless of race or class, resonates as a common denominator to those of us who actually know what a muscadine is or have ever purchased fruit off the bed of a pickup truck.
The beauty of her poems emanates from the simplicity of her imagery, which can be seen even in the first poem of the collection, “Southern Life,” where she describes the beauty of a Southern setting through the use of images like “Wooden porches cleanly swept” and “tea that’s syrupy sweet.” While her general ode to Mississippi is tender and nostalgic, Mrs. Dorsey’s personal poems are my favorites of the collection. Her candid explorations of her love for her husband and son, her respect for those who helped to rear her, and her own self-examination add enormously to an already quite suitable poetic collection. My absolute favorite poem in the collection, incidentally, is also among the shortest in the collection. It is called “Turning 40” and goes as follows:
When I turned 40,
I felt so brand new;
I bought a bikini,
And got a tattoo;
For some unknown reason,
I felt more alive;
I can’t imagine what’ll happen,
When I turn 45.
Mrs. Dorsey’s passion for life, love, and the South come shining through in this collection, reminding those of us who do have the aforementioned love/hate relationship with Mississippi why it is that we continue to come home over and over again and love the fabric of our home, in spite of some of its shadows.
Ran Walker, Esq.
Asst. Professor of English, Hampton University
Mrs. Neely-Dorsey writes,
“My mother gave me a passionate love for reading and writing, and my father gave me an appreciation for poetry and great literature, especially that of African-American origin.”
I am always interested in how a writer draws from her own heritage in her work not as a way to enhance it, but as a main character. For Mrs. Neely-Dorsey, her main character is Tupelo, Mississippi.
For Southerners, Mrs. Neely-Dorsey promises that her book will bring back childhood memories. She writes on her site, “You are most certain to relive, if only in your mind, some of your own most beautiful childhood memories.”
Here is a piece from her poem entitled “Southern Life”:
If you want a glimpse of Southern life,
Come close and walk with me;
I’ll tell you all the simple things,
That you are sure to see.
You’ll see mockingbirds and bumblebees,
Magnolia blossoms and dogwood trees;
Caterpillars on the step,
Wooden porches cleanly swept;
Watermelons on the vine,
Strong majestic Georgia pines
Rocking chairs and front yard swings
Junebugs flying on a string
In “Southern Life” Mrs. Neely-Dorsey uses a rhyme scheme which is most appropriate with the mood of her work. Simple. Happy. Innocent. Nostalgic of Childhood.
Dump Peach Cobbler - One of
Patricia Neely-Dorsey's Favorite Recipes
You need
1cup self-rising flour
1 cup milk
1 cup sugar
1 stick butter
1 large can Peaches DO NOT drain
Preheat oven to 350 degrees
Mix flour and milk, in 9x9 square Pyrex dish..., add sugar, dump can of peaches and juice into it mixture,cut butter into patties and put on top. Bake for 1 hr. and enjoy...
A cobbler that EVEN an "Undomestic Diva" such as myself can make!!!!!
(Recipe from a very domestic blogger friend)
The (Un) Domestic Diva
I don't cook and I don't sew.
And I can hardly make a bed;
I don't even grocery shop,
To keep my family fed.
My friends are always wondering,
And often ask what it is I do;
Now, I can just simply say,
I write sweet poems for you.
from Reflections of a Mississippi Magnolia-A Life in Poems
copyright 2008

Reflections of a Mississippi Magnolia - Review by Martha A. Cheves, Author of Stir, Laugh, Repeat
I don't think I've ever picked up a book that brings back as many memories as Reflections of a Mississippi Magnolia. And the memories were all good memories. It made me remember growing up in the south and participating in the activities the poems represent. From the "Partyline" which talks about growing up with a telephone number shared by others, to the "Baptismal Sunday" which took place in a pond instead of a baptismal pool, and on to the "Making Cracklins" which I can still see my grandmother doing.
I have many favorites in this little book of memories but two that touched me the most were "Shelling Peas" and "Slopping Hogs." These two poems really took me back to my childhood while growing up in the south. So, if you are a Southerner and would like to awaken some memories of when life was more laid back, this book is a must read. If you're not from the south, reading Reflections of a Mississippi Magnolia will let you see what you missed. For me, this is a book I'll cherish forever.
www.marthaskitchenkorner.blogspot.com/